Ok maybe I was being a little cryptic in my statement too
So since my pizza has a little longer to cook, I'll be more specific.
the rate of decelerration of an object (meaning accelerating in the opposite direction of motion, or as commonly thought of..."slowing down") is totally dependent on the forces applied to the object, and the mass of the object.
So, with a given force, say 10 Newtons or something, if you apply that force opposite how the hammer is falling, and also apply it in the same way to the feather, than yes, the hammer will deccelerate slower.
However you could just as easily make them deccelerate at the same rate, or make the feather deccelerate slower. See how?
It's all in newtons 2nd law, F = ma. or put in another form
a = F/m. If you make the ratio F/m the same for both objects, they will decellerate at the same rate. You can make the feather deccelerate slower by making sure the following inequality holds:
F_feather/m_feather < F_hammer/m_hammer